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6 Reasons Women Are Attracted to Older Men


Look, there’s no two ways about it: in the game of love, experience matters. Women are going to prefer an older partner to a man that’s younger. Naturally, there are exceptions to this rule, but generally speaking this is usually going to be true.

And as much as we can try to say that age is just a number, it’s at least one of the more important numbers. Let’s take a look at some reasons why women want a partner that’s older than they.

Women Mature Earlier

That’s right, men. While we’re still wondering what’s going to happen on tomorrow’s episode of Dragonball Z, girls are planning weddings. I mean, If we’re being really honest, most men never fully mature to begin with. 

Financial Stability

While this doesn’t mean every girl is a gold digger, the stability of your finances is a factor you shouldn’t underestimate. Older men usually have their stuff sorted out, have a steady job, their own place,… It gives a woman peace of mind and a feeling of safety.

Young Men Have No Idea How To Present Themselves

Guys, we’re all idiots when we’re young. Hitting on girls is mostly about trying to impress your mates, but you don’t really know how to make yourself stand out. With age comes wisdom and the ability to stand out from a crowd without being obnoxious.

Older Men Are More Caring

Young men don’t really care for much but themselves. It’s a sad truth, but we need to grow as people have the empathy levels required for a steady and loving relationship. And that’s also the main reason why an older man will always be preferred by a woman.

Mature Men Know What They Want

You’ve been around the block a few times, so you start planning for a future and you’re heading towards it. No more fooling around and trying different things all the time. Nothing’s more attractive to women than having clear goals in life.

Couple having coffee at a coffee shop. Man and woman meeting at cafe.

It’s a More Equal Relationship

Older men have no difficulty helping around the house. They just help however they can, because they know that you’re both building this dream together. Besides, doing the laundry never killed anyone. Or at least I hope it didn’t.

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