If you’re a young college student you can, like, totally be forgiven for acting like a ditz. But once you enter the real world, it’s time to start acting like a mature, responsible adult. This means dressing and speaking like a grown up, and making the kind of choices that show you’re a strong, independent adult who wants to be taken seriously. Your path to success starts with reading these 11 tips.
1. Improve your posture
Do you slump your shoulders when sitting or walk with your head down? Not only do these postures convey a sense of meekness, they straight up show the world that you don’t give a shizzle. Keep your shoulders straight, your head up high, and let everybody know that you’re a big deal. Stay relaxed though; you don’t want to mimic a marching soldier.
2. Ditch the multi-colored outfits
Those multi-colored outfits might look cute, but they also make you look six. If you want to dress for success, choose solid monochrome colors.
3. Eliminate “umm” “I think” and “like” from your vocabulary
These filler words are completing unnecessary and give the impression that you’re not that smart or clever as you’re. If you are trying to come up with a response and can’t find the right words immediately, silent pauses as you gather your thoughts show intelligence and maturity.
4. Speak with a lower-pitched voice
Studies have found that people respect both men and women if they speak with a lower-pitched voice. If you want to show that you’re a leader, your pitch makes a big difference. Of course, this isn’t to say you have to have the rich, deep baritone Barry White voice. The key is to speak with authority.
5. Stay informed about the news
Brushing up on current events will benefit you in a variety of ways. For one thing, you’ll come off as more intelligent. Secondly, it gives you plenty of conversation starters when you’re socializing with the bigwigs.
6. Make eye contact
Not making eye contact leaves the impression that you are shy, standoffish, and feel intimidated by others. That’s not going to work well if you’re at, say, a job interview or business meeting. Eye contact tells others that you are confident and paying attention to what they’re saying. That’s something they’re sure to respond favorably to.
7. Don’t overdo the perfume
The point of perfume is to convince the world that you naturally smell like sweet green tea. Nothing wrong with that. But if we can smell you all the way down the hallway, it means you’ve spritzed yourself one too many times. Remember to be subtle about it.
8. Be an active listener
You might truly be the most interesting person in the world with a lot of super amazing things to share with everybody else in the room. But remember that leadership isn’t just about commanding the room when you’re speaking. You should also listen and pay attention to what others are saying.
9. Buy a professional-looking handbag
In the professional world, it makes sense that you would want to maintain a sense of professionalism in the way you dress, your mannerisms, and especially with your handbag. A simple, moderately priced leather bag is the way to go.
10. Work on that power handshake
Learn to grasp firmly, two shakes, and release. Wimpy handshakes will reinforce the idea that you’re a weak, docile girl. No palm tickling either, although that would be a pretty cheeky thing to do.
11. Wear glasses
Seriously. Even if you have perfect 20/20 vision, wearing glasses will make you look infinitely smarter. Just make sure to choose your words carefully so that nobody sees through your facade. You don’t want to become the next Sarah Palin, after all.