Guys, don’t look now but that girl at the cafe or nightclub or houseparty or baseball game or your cousin’s Bar Mitzvah or at the park or the library is totally checking you out. Or is she? There’s really only one way to find out and that’s to read this article!
1. She Draws a Heart On Your Starbucks Cup
In this scenario she’s a barista, okay? Although it would be pretty funny (and maybe a bit psycho?) if a random girl just came up to you with a felt pen and did that. Hey, I smell a future Brainberries article! Anyway, think about this: an attractive barista spends her entire shift making coffee for guys who are constantly flirting with her, asking for her number, and in some cases probably acting like jackasses. So if SHE is the one flirting with YOU, that’s definitely a sign that she digs you.
2. She Wanders Near You While You’re Taking a Break Between Sets
So you’re off to the gym commencing Operation Swole. You’re going to wreck those pecs and demolish those delts. As you are resting between those 300lb bench presses, you notice she casually moseys on over to where you are even though it’s obvious free weights aren’t part of her workout plan. She probably doesn’t stick around very long lest she start looking like a weirdo, so catch her while you can.
3. She Leans in When Talking To You
This is a really good sign for two reasons. First, it means she feels comfortable enough with you to venture out of her personal bubble. Second, it’s clear she is interested in what you have to say and has a lot to share with you. This one should be obvious, but who knows. There are probably dopes out there who assume leaning closer means she has poor hearing.
4. She Gushes Over Your Dog
If a girl comes over to you and gets all lubby dubby about your little furball of a friend, there’s a very good chance that she’s equally lubby dubby about you. It makes perfect sense if you think about it. While the fact that you like dogs disarms her to the point where she’s comfortable with approaching a random stranger, it’s hard to imagine she would respond the same way if she didn’t see you as potential dating material.